Wooziness into philosophical
Recently I realised that my body is no more like that when I was a 15 year old. Late nights, heavy exercise without sufficient sleep and bad eating habits is taking a toll on me. Have been feeling rather lethargic combined with stuffy nose and wooziness. Maybe its just because I have been studying so much lately that also causes psychological stress together with physical stress. Can't wait for the holidays in a weeks time!!!
One of my friends sort of became quite philosophical lately with all of her thinkings. Indeed there was something good that come out of it, the answer that many have been looking for. Ever wondered why we can just be so angry at someone and it will eventually lead us to hate that person? The answer is love. The reason why we feel so angry towards someone is because we actually love and care for that person. Allow me to try and explain on this point.
Just imagine you are driving on the road and another car just cuts into your lane without warning. Yes, we would be angry but its only for that moment, for that day at most. But if someone we really love and care for hurts us in anyway, we would really feel angry and dissapointed as we won't be expecting them to do such a thing to us. This feeling will not only last for the day, it would last for days, weeks, months or even years if the conflict is not delt properly. Friendships and relationships are broken so easily just because of this.
Friends become enemies in split seconds, couples break up, married couples divorce, everything just leads back to dissapointment that leads to anger and eventually hatered for each other. Sadly to say its usually due to trivial matters left unresolved that slowly builds up as relationship debris and eventually the lip pops open. Some try to argue thier way out, some try to find other ways, couselling to clear this mess but eventually it still boils down to the individuals involve. Are they willing to resolve this or are they going to judge the other person base on dissapointments?
Love for each other is always there. To me, love is everlasting, it is forever. How much we hate the other person, we still look back in love for them. We still care for them, we still miss them. Once we look under the debris of dissapoinments, anger and words, the love that was shared is still there. Its just like the sun being blocked by the clouds for awhile. We can't say that the sun is not there when the clouds block it as the sun will always be there just like the love between individuals under the debris of relationships. Clearing the mess will indeed take much time and pain but the end result will be understanding each other much better, in turn building a stronger relationship and finding a love that is everlasting.
A perfect couple is not when two perfect persons come together, it is when two imperfect person learn their differences and accept each others.
One of my friends sort of became quite philosophical lately with all of her thinkings. Indeed there was something good that come out of it, the answer that many have been looking for. Ever wondered why we can just be so angry at someone and it will eventually lead us to hate that person? The answer is love. The reason why we feel so angry towards someone is because we actually love and care for that person. Allow me to try and explain on this point.
Just imagine you are driving on the road and another car just cuts into your lane without warning. Yes, we would be angry but its only for that moment, for that day at most. But if someone we really love and care for hurts us in anyway, we would really feel angry and dissapointed as we won't be expecting them to do such a thing to us. This feeling will not only last for the day, it would last for days, weeks, months or even years if the conflict is not delt properly. Friendships and relationships are broken so easily just because of this.
Friends become enemies in split seconds, couples break up, married couples divorce, everything just leads back to dissapointment that leads to anger and eventually hatered for each other. Sadly to say its usually due to trivial matters left unresolved that slowly builds up as relationship debris and eventually the lip pops open. Some try to argue thier way out, some try to find other ways, couselling to clear this mess but eventually it still boils down to the individuals involve. Are they willing to resolve this or are they going to judge the other person base on dissapointments?
Love for each other is always there. To me, love is everlasting, it is forever. How much we hate the other person, we still look back in love for them. We still care for them, we still miss them. Once we look under the debris of dissapoinments, anger and words, the love that was shared is still there. Its just like the sun being blocked by the clouds for awhile. We can't say that the sun is not there when the clouds block it as the sun will always be there just like the love between individuals under the debris of relationships. Clearing the mess will indeed take much time and pain but the end result will be understanding each other much better, in turn building a stronger relationship and finding a love that is everlasting.
A perfect couple is not when two perfect persons come together, it is when two imperfect person learn their differences and accept each others.
posted by aArOn at
9/23/2008 12:16:00 AM
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Anyway, my point is do we want to change our pass? Obviouly we go through life with much regret that we carry around as baggage. Honestly, I would really like to change some parts of my pass but is it worth it? The ending of the movie really struck me with thoughts. We have to take the bullet ourselves to ensure the happiness of those around especially for those we love most. Sometimes I really wish that things didn't turn out as it is, but do wishes really come true? How much can we really do if our life is already planned out?
Guess only this things only happends in movies...
